A little bit extra:
because we all want to be a little extra
A wedding is a wedding is a wedding. Right?
Right, but sometimes things can get sticky and we can have extra challenges or extra things to think about. On this page, I have tried to compile information, ideas and stories that are particularly relevant to same sex couples. When we are planning our wedding day, we have to think through things that most opposite sex coupldes dont, like, can two brides both wear a big white frock? Do two grooms look for matching suites or not? Has anyone ever actually told Aunt Agnus that I’m gay, is she going to make a scene? What do we do if the bakery actually refuses to bake our big ol’ gay wedding cake? Hopefully, the information and ideas here will help, and you can always call me with queries on 0438921655 ♥
Making Your Wedding Ceremony Uniquely Yours.
A personalized wedding not only stands out in the memories of those who attend but also creates an intimate, meaningful experience for the couple. This blog will guide you through various aspects of customizing your wedding ceremony to make it uniquely yours.
Writing your own vows Part 1
Your vows are one of the most important parts of your big day. With all the excitement and planning, party preparation and all that goes in to creating the perfect celebration, the vow is often left to the last minute. This guide will help you to create the perfect vow, to write and declare a promise on your #wedding day that you will remember and will be happy to be bound to for ever.
HOW THE MOON PHASE ON YOUR WEDDING DAY CAN INFLUENCE YOUR RELATIONSHIP
Planning your wedding and choosing the perfect date can be an overwhelming task, especially in the current state of the world. It may be difficult to feel romantic and coordinate special events as the coronavirus pandemic continues to present itself as a real threat....
Reading for a second marriage
They wanted their ceremony to demonstrate their belief that even though they had already lived full lives with their first partners, they still believed in the sacredness of marriage, and that they took their vows very seriously.
Finding the perfect cake topper
it is essential that the cake topper reflects your style as well as the cake’s.
A momentous moment in Australian history!!
On 7 December 2017, the Australian Parliament passed the #Marriage Amendment (Definition and Religious Freedoms) Act 2017 to change the definition of marriage and provide for marriage equality in Australia. The right to marry in Australia will no longer be...
Writing your own vows Part 1
History tells us that prior to the 13th century, vows were likely not to have been part of the marriage ceremony. But nowadays, your vows are one of the most important parts of your big day.
Writing your own vows – inspiring words
How can you say you will be there in the good times and the bad?
Writing your own vows Part 3
I guarantee that we’ll have tough times. I guarantee that at some point, one or both of us will want to get out. But I also guarantee that if I don’t ask you to be mine, I’ll regret it for the rest of my life, because I know, in my heart, you’re the only one for me.
Writing your own vows Part 2
Before we met, I had the usual dreams for the future. But since I have met you, my dreams are much bigger. All the things in life that felt unreachable before now seem possible when I am with you.
Redefining the Wedding Party
Most same sex ceremonies don’t necessarily fit with what we have become used to in weddings. I find this super exciting because we are in such a wonderful time when same sex couples are redefining many of the age old traditions we are used to.
New traditions – Same-sex weddings
Many people think that a same sex ceremony is the same as a ‘straight’ ceremony. And while very much is the same, LGBQTI people may have their own traditions, their own dynamics and their own sensitivities and require a different layer of knowledge and sensitivity.
Honeymoon history
Nowadays we are used to planning a special get away with our newly beloved spouse. But honeymoons weren't always so luxurious. Ancient Norse bridal couples went into hiding after the #wedding, and a family member would bring them a cup of honey wine for 30 days — or...
Candle Ceremony
Ever seen a couple light candles as part of their ceremony and wondered what it was all about? The candle ceremony is a symbolic metaphor for two merging families, or the union of two individuals, becoming one in commitment. The candle ceremony uses two taper candles...
A Very Romantic Wedding Story
Did you see this? These guys were in the news recently - This couple met when she asked him for change. It can happen anywhere at any time!! This is what they said in the Guardian: A romance began when a homeless man gave a passerby 50p for her electricity meter –...
Peruvian rituals
In Peru, single female guests take part in a tradition a little sweeter than a bouquet toss. Charms attached to ribbons are tucked between the layers of the wedding cake. Before the cake is cut, each woman grabs a ribbon and pulls. At the end of one ribbon is a fake...
Bridesmaides and Royal weddings
Royal weddings in the United Kingdom do bridesmaids with a twist. Usually, the bride's attendants are young girls rather than the contemporaries. At Queen Elizabeth II's wedding in 1947, there were eight bridesmaids, most younger than the 21-year-old bride. Diana had...
A twist on throwing the bouquet
In Peru, single female guests take part in a tradition a little sweeter than a bouquet toss.
To change your name or not?
Do same sex couples who have a Civil Partnership Ceremony generally change their names? It’s a good question. Like everything else, people are going to do what suits them. But in my experience, older couples / couples who have been together for a long time are most...
Traditional Zulu weddings are marked by vibrant colors
Do’s and Dont’s at a Civil Partnership Ceremony
Since we have recently seen the implementation of the Civil Partnership Act in QLD, its time for a few Do’s and Don’t’s on the big day! 1. Don't crash the event. Let me say it again: Don't ever crash a ceremony. Do not attend a ceremony for which you did not receive a...
Planning Civil Partnership Ceremony?
Important Tips for Same-Sex Couples Celebrations require a lot of preparation and sometimes same-sex ceremonies require a bit more. There are some things you will want to take into consideration when planning your civil partnership ceremony that you hadn’t...
To confetti or not to confetti?
Nothing says a party like a little confetti ...but nowadays couples often want something a little different at their #wedding ceremony. At their heart weddings are a lot of fun, a great party to celebrate your love story. One of the prettiest moments is waving...
Smudging on your wedding day
Have you ever thought of having a smudging ceremony on your #wedding day? Its essential to have a ceremony that is special and meaningful to you. You want your wedding ceremony to be a profound expression of your commitment to each other. You can...
Bug Off
Are you having an outdoor #wedding? Don't forget to take care of your guests comfort on your big day. Mozzies, midgies, and flies can take the fun out of even the bet ceremony. Leaving bottles of bug spray out can help your guests relax ad enjoy your...
Marriage History
Around the world, family-arranged alliances have gradually given way to love matches, and a transition from an agricultural to a market economy plays a big role in that transition Parents historically controlled access to inheritance of agricultural land. But with the...
Love is…
Love is like a cloud Love is like a dream Love is 1 word & everything in between Love is a fairytale come true I found Love when I found u
Helpful hints for a stress-free wedding
Your wedding day will be one of the most memorable days of your life. You want it to run smoothly and you want to minimize stress. Ive put together a few tips to reduce the stress so you can increase the fun, the love and the joy!! Keep yourself hydrated and...