I promised to give you some words that could help inspire you . Try some of these:

How do you describe your partner? Are they your….

  • guide,
  • compass
  • friend,
  • ally,
  • companion,
  • partner
  • treasure,
  • jewel,
  • precious thing
  • safe place,
  • your home,
  • your comfort
  • inspiration,
  • motivation,
  • fire
  • destiny,
  • hope,
  • magic

How do you feel about marrying your beloved?

  • Happy
  • Certain
  • Grateful
  • Steadfast
  • Joyful
  • Proud
  • Humbled
  • Fulfilled
  • Inspired
  • Excited

How can you say you will be there in the good times and the bad?

  • In sickness and in health
  • Our imperfections
  • Joys and sorrows
  • Victories and disappointments
  • Our changes as we grow old together
  • Life’s challenges

What is it that you are promising? I promise to:

  • Love
  • Cherish
  • Be there for you
  • Listen
  • Learn
  • Be patient
  • Go on adventures
  • Inspire/be inspired
  • Appreciate
  • Devote myself
  • Be faithful
  • Be true
  • Be kind
  • Remember
  • Uplift

How long are we talkin’ here…?

  • Forever
  • Forever more
  • All the days of my life
  • For as long as I live
  • For eternity
  • Always
  • Until heaven takes me
  • For all of my days
  • For as long as I breathe
  • Until my last breath
  • For the rest of our lives

What about the ring, what is it?

  • a symbol of continuity
  • a symbol of my love, affection and faithfulness to you.
  • You are more precious than gold
  • You’ll know I’m wearing it too, wherever we are, whenever we’re apart. Look at it, and know.

What it might look like when you put it all together

“____, I am so happy to share my life with you. You are my home, my safe place. I promise to be that safe place for you, for the rest of our lives together. To be patient, to cherish you, to be kind; In good times, and in bad. I ask you to wear this ring, as a symbol of my love, affection and faithfulness to you. And whenever you look at it, you’ll know I’m wearing the same, and for the same reason.

I hope this helped you out a bit with finding the right words.

Have  a read of the rest of the posts in this series: